co-dependent friends


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Posted by Kim on May 07, 19101 at 11:03:28:

I have two friends who are codependent with each other. They have shut out most of, if not all of their friends, including myself. I am sure you can understand how hurt many of us are. I am very sad about it because these were two people that I loved like sisters. Slowly they began to close many of us out in our circle of friends. We miss them. When we have approached them about this, they admit that they have a problem but then admit that there is nothing wrong with their friendship. :O

After being stood up to hang out with either or both of them and having been hurt many times by overstepped boundaries, I have decided to no longer pursuit a close friendship with them and made this clear to both of them. Was this wrong?

Is there anything more I or my friends can do for our "Sisters in the Lord"? I think hearing some advice would be helpful and settling. Please help.



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