Posted by Philip St. Romain on September 17, 19100 at 09:58:44:
In Reply to: Re: Another question posted by Tanya on September 15, 19100 at 19:24:29:
: Ok let's just say I did something wrong. Let's say I lied to you and you never found out about it. Is it necessary for me to tell you that i lied?
In the 12 Step traditions, they say amends should not be made when they will hurt another unnecessarily. So. . . you need to look at what you've done, and why, and how it's affected your relationship with the person.
If you'd like to be more specific about what's going on in this situation, drop me an e-mail.
Peace,
Phil